When you first get to know a girl, apart from chatting, the best way to enhance your understanding is still going on a date, and dates usually involve meals. But sometimes when you invite a girl to have a meal, she may not come out.
Invite a girl to have a meal
First, pretending to pick up girls to make up the number
If you are a master at picking up bargains, you can use excuses like new store openings or old store promotions to ask a girl to go along. After all, you can’t finish it all by yourself, so having one more person can help you share the burden. On the surface, it seems like you are asking a girl for help, not directly inviting her. Generally, girls won’t directly reject you either. Also, when checking out, try not to let the girl notice your tricks. However, your wallet might be in trouble. It’s recommended to act within your means.
Second, the provocation method goes against girls
Before inviting a girl to a meal, you can ask her what she likes to eat or where the food is delicious, and ask her to recommend some to you. After the girl tells you, you should go against her. For instance, if she says, “The one on the east side is delicious,” you should say, “That one is so bad. The one on the west side is the best.” You must arouse her curiosity and make her wonder if you are right. Then you can say, “If you don’t believe me, I’ll take you to try it tomorrow.” At this point, the girl has already shown interest in the restaurant you mentioned, and she will easily agree to your request for a meal.
Three, deliberately owing a girl a favor and treating her to a meal
If you deliberately owe a girl a favor, it’s quite easy to handle. First, ask the girl to do you a favor that is neither too big nor too small (in the end, it should be something she can help you with easily. If the favor is a bit difficult, she might refuse). For instance, if you know that a girl can draw, you can say that you have a niece who wants to learn to draw and ask her if there is any teacher she can recommend. After the girl offers help, you can make an excuse that you have troubled her before and want to treat her to a meal to express your gratitude. If she refuses, you can say that you won’t have the nerve to ask her for help anymore. Generally, the girl won’t have the nerve to turn you down.
Fourth, make a girl owe you a favor and ask her to treat you to a meal
If a girl asks you for a favor, she might express her gratitude to you: “Thank you for doing me such a big favor.” Then you can say in a joking tone that she should treat you to a meal: “It’s okay. Treat me to a meal. Consider it as repaying a favor.” Girls usually invite you to dinner. However, after you have a meal with a girl, you won’t really ask her to pay, or you’ll treat her to a meal later and bring her back. However, the difficulty of this method lies in that you need to find a way to do the girl a favor and make her owe you a favor. It depends on the specific situation.
Summary: The key to how to invite a girl to a meal without turning her down lies in the fact that if she knows from the very beginning that you merely want to treat her to a meal, she may not show up due to pressure (such as being afraid of owing a favor or taking advantage). So when we invite a girl out for a meal, it’s best to have a relatively reasonable reason or excuse. Don’t have too much sense of demand. Only in this way will the girl be more likely to accept the invitation.