Many couples get together purely due to the effect of hormones, without considering at all whether their temperaments are compatible or not. Moreover, many people tend to mistake inappropriate performances for those that are being reconciled. Here I’d like to share with you five signs that a man and a woman are not compatible. If you have more than three of them, it means you are not getting used to each other but are not a good match.
1. Feelings that parents do not agree with
Many friends who are not yet of that age may not quite understand why a relationship that parents do not approve of cannot continue. In fact, this is because our marriage is not merely the emotion of two individuals, but the union of two families. If the parents do not agree, even if the two insist on being together, they will eventually develop a rift in their relationship due to the various obstructions from both sets of parents.
2. A relationship where the harder you work, the worse your state becomes
Many couples always mistake the incompatibility for “getting used to each other”, but they overlook one point: the more they get used to each other, the better it gets. However, if they are not a good match, the harder they work, the worse their conditions will become. In fact, the reason for this is quite simple. That is, even if the two of you are making efforts, the directions of your efforts are not the same, and your state will naturally get worse and worse.
3. Unable to resist hurting each other
If there is a situation between you two where you clearly know that such behavior will make the other person sad and upset, but still do it, it indicates that you are not suitable for each other. Or perhaps there is no love between you two anymore. At this point, only letting go is the best choice between you two. Otherwise, as time goes by, the degree to which you hurt each other will become deeper and deeper.
4. There is a conflict in the concept of money
Living a life cannot do without money, nor can it do without trivial matters. If the views on money of both sides are inconsistent, it will inevitably bring about very big problems. Especially when there is a difference in income between two people, this can easily lead to quarrels. For instance, if you save the money you would spend on clothes for yourself and end up buying a more expensive air conditioner, while the other person spends a lot on a computer for you, it will make both of you feel exhausted.
5. The other party has intolerable shortcomings
If the other person has a flaw that you can’t stand, then this is also a sign that the two of you are not suitable for each other. Because, when love still exists, you can endure. But the love between two people will eventually shift. At that time, you won’t tolerate the flaws in the other person.